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Prayer for Caregivers

Gift us, Lord, with the humility
of those who care beyond knowing
and being known; who give their time ungrudgingly
with simple and wordless presence;
who listen like the patient dawn
holding its breath,
anticipating birdsong even
from a dark and starless sky.

Teach us, Lord, the humility
of healing that seeks no cure
but peace, that knows no power
but hope. Grant our service
the self-forgetfulness that sees
only the other; grant our hearts
that wisdom which discerns
the riches in poverty, the strength
in weakness, the life in death.

Hold us, Lord, in the mercy
that is as ready to share tears
as to dry them; as willing to carry
the cross as to roll away the stone.

Guide us in our walk
across waves of suffering too rough to bear,
that we, like you, may have the courage
to extend our hand to our sinking neighbor,
and so together reach the still harbor of grace.

Anne M. Windholz, MDiv, PhD


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2023-03-09T20:47:51+00:00March 9th, 2023|

Prayer For a Friend in Need

Heavenly Father, a Friend most dear
has asked for prayer.
For she and her family have had
an awful lot to bear.

So many of us hold her dear
but simply are unable to hold her near.
So we pray Father that you bestow
comfort and hope that only You can give
to those near the end of the rope.

Friends may offer words of support and cheer
but these sometimes just aren’t enough
for those living with fright.
Fear of loneliness, of hopelessness,
of things that go bump in the night.
Fear even of – well – fear.

Help them see the healing that comes with time,
as hours turn to days, and days to weeks,
weeks into months and then again…

Just as You have provided Your Plan of how
the darkness of the ember-ary’s is slowly
replaced by rebirth which eternally springs forth;
followed by the warm, somber days of reflection
before falling into hallowed memories of feasts
prepared with love and eaten in thanks; and then,
that Season of light, hope and love as we,
each in our way, celebrate that most memorable
remarkable day of all, the birth of Your Son.

Father, you have given us the light
to see there is strength in might.
That the power we possess in praying
for one another, bonds us together,
each to the other.

Dennis Clark – ©

Parliamentarian for the National Board 


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2023-03-09T20:46:11+00:00March 9th, 2023|

La Campaña de la lista de Regalos de Amazon

Lisa BortnerEscrito por Lisa Bortner

En una reciente reunión provincial número VII, Lindsey Murphy, la directora de la iglesia de la transfiguración localizada en el ministerio del banco de comida, compartió con nosotros una idea innovadora de cómo llevar a cabo la campaña. En vez de preguntarle a los feligreses que traigan ciertos artículos a la iglesia para ser donados a una causa caritativa especifica, ella creo una lista de regalos en Amazon. Si no estas familiarizado con dichas listas, funciona de la siguiente manera. Primero que todo, la iglesia debe crear una cuenta en Amazon.

Quien quiera que sea el coordinador para la iglesia va entonces a acceder la página de Amazon y escoger los artículos que el recipiente de la campaña ya ha dicho que se necesitan. Por ejemplo, si el recipiente de tu campaña es “Shower Ministry” (El Ministerio para Fiestas de Bebes), el coordinador podría establecer una lista de regalos de ropa interior, medias, jabón, pasta dental, cepillos dentales, etc. Tu podrías hasta indicar el número de artículos que son necesitados. Toda vez que la lista de regalos ha sido creada, entonces tu compartirías la lista de regalos con tu congregación.

Lindsey indico que la manera más fácil de hacer lo antes mencionado es por medio de la creación de un Código QR para tu lista. De nuevo, quizás te estes preguntando: ¿Como se crea un Código QR? Hay muchas páginas en la internet que se pueden usar para crear un Código QR. Escoges una, entras el enlace de la lista de regalos de Amazon en el generador del Código QR, y luego de estos pasos bien simples, tendrás un Código QR listo para tu lista de regalos. Este Código QR puede ser compartido con la congregación a través de un correo electrónico, en el boletín dominical, o expuesto en el salón de la iglesia. La persona que desee contribuir a la campaña ahora solo tiene que escanear el Código QR, escoger lo que desean comprar de la lista de regalos, y comprarlo.

El articulo va a ser entregado directamente a la dirección del ministerio de campaña escogida y ya preestablecida en la cuenta de Amazon. Ya no hace falta salir de compras para conseguir un artículo, traerlo a la iglesia, y dejarlo en el compartimento para que sea recogido por el coordinador de la campaña. Ahora puedes comprar y donar artículos directamente al ministerio desde la casa. Nunca ha sido tan fácil.

Amazon también tiene un programa que se llama AmazonSmile (Sonrisas Amazon) donde las organizaciones sin fines de lucro pueden crear una lista de regalos para que aquellos que quieran donar puedan hacerlo en línea. Este programa te permite crear una lista de caridad que los compradores pueden buscar para de esa forma comprar artículos para tu organización. Amazon envía los artículos directamente a tu organización. Como un bono, la organización gana un 0.5 por ciento de las compras elegibles en donaciones de dinero en efectivo que Amazon luego le paga a cada organización trimestralmente.


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2023-03-09T20:42:10+00:00March 9th, 2023|

Outreach Amazon Wish Lists

Lisa BortnerBy Lisa Bortner

At a recent Province VII gathering, Lindsey Murphy, the outreach director for The Church of the Transfiguration in Dallas’ food bank ministry, shared with us an innovative way of approaching outreach. Instead of asking parishioners to bring certain items to church that would be donated toward the chosen outreach, she created an Amazon wish list that was used instead. If you’re unfamiliar with Amazon wish list, here’s how it works. First of all, the church would have to have an Amazon account.

Whoever is the outreach coordinator for the church would then go to Amazon and choose items that the outreach recipient has already said are needed. For instance, if your outreach recipient is a Shower Ministry, the coordinator may set up a wish list of underwear, socks, soap, toothpaste, toothbrushes, etc. You can even indicate how many of each item is needed. Once the wish list has been created, you would then need to share the wish list with your congregation.

Lindsey indicated the easiest way to do this is by creating a QR code for your list. Again, you may be wondering: How in the world would I create a QR code? There are many websites that can be used to create a free QR code. Choose one, enter the Amazon wish list web address in the QR code generator, and after a few simple steps, you now have a QR code for your wish list.

This QR code can then be shared with the congregation through an email, in the church bulletin, or displayed in the church hall. The person wishing to contribute to the outreach project now just needs to scan the QR code, choose what they wish to purchase from the wish list, and purchase it.

The item will be delivered directly to the chosen outreach ministry’s address that was set up in Amazon. There’s no more going out shopping for an item, bringing it to church, and leaving it in a bin for pickup by the outreach coordinator, and then the coordinator having to deliver the items to the chosen ministry. You can now shop and donate items directly to the ministry from home! Doing God’s work has never been easier.

Amazon also has a program that is called AmazonSmile where non-profits may create a wish list so that those who wish to donate can do so online. This program allows you to create a charity list that buyers can search and purchase items for your organization. Amazon sends the items directly to the organization. As a bonus, the organization earns 0.5 percent of eligible purchases in cash donations that Amazon pays out to each organization quarterly.


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2023-03-09T20:42:44+00:00March 9th, 2023|

I tried to capture you

Moon-Patti-PosanYou alluded me. I smelled fresh moonlight, felt your light bless me and I wonder…

Perhaps these moments are just to be between us, deep within, held close in the tapestry of my inner being, gazing at the moon.

I am offered a window to the unseen God.

My heart opens and gratitude flows, knowing the Divine is not absent, but a living light.

Shining in all beings

Patti Joy Posan – Sewanee, TN


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2023-03-09T20:48:28+00:00March 9th, 2023|

The Square (El cuadrado)

Escrito por Dennis Clark, PPP
Parlamentario del NECW

En la reunión de octubre de 2022 realizada por la nueva Junta de directores del NECW, los parlamentarios introdujeron la primera de una serie de exposiciones tituladas “Taking the ME our of Meetings” o en castellano “Eliminando el YO fuera de las Reuniones” Su razón es la de la falta de civilidad a nivel local y mundial que, ahora más que nunca, ha impactado el comportamiento de los miembros de varios grupos a los que pertenecen. Tras haber practicado y enseñado la ciencia de la ley del parlamentarismo por media década, él ha visto un alza alarmante en el número de individuos y facciones buscando apabullar con sus opiniones a los demás miembros de la sociedad de una manera que no conduce al bienestar, armonía, quizás hasta la existencia de la asociación misma.

Sigue aseverando que este tipo de comportamiento es reflexivo de la sociedad en su totalidad. El día de la exposición que se efectuó delante de la Junta en Manchester, Nuevo Hampshire, se dieron a conocer noticias de un intento de asesinato en contra del esposo de la jefe de la Cámara Baja del congreso de los Estados Unidos, Paul Pelosi, en la casa de la pareja en California. Esa misma noche hubo intento de asesinato en la calle principal de Manchester, algo sumamente atípico en el área. Tras el termino de este artículo, se dieron a conocer noticias del deceso de tres estudiantes de la Universidad de Virginia víctimas de un tiroteo en el campus Universitario, con dos estudiantes heridos en el acto a manos de un estudiante. Aunado a ello, dos muertes más se reportaron en el campus universitario de la Universidad de Idaho. Imagina por un momento el terror que debe subyacer en la mente de cada uno de los padres acerca de si algún día verán a sus hijos vivos cuando se marchan a sus estudios universitarios.

No se debe dar por sentado que este tipo de incidencias no se equiparan a los preceptos de una sociedad civilizada. El General Henry M. Robert (1837-1923), autor del libro Robert’s Rules of Order (1876), dijo que “Donde no existe la ley, pero cada ser humano hace lo que considera ser su verdad relativa, existe la menor de las libertades.” Aunque los individuos no tengan control de lo que acontece en las calles, ellos si tienen la habilidad de controlar el pobre comportamiento que se suscita en las reuniones a las que asisten, si es que dichas reuniones se dan en una sociedad organizada que ha adoptado un cumulo de normas, las cuales deberían incluir un artículo nombrando la autoridad de un parlamentario tal como la presentada en la última edición del libro Robert’s Rules of Order, Newly Revised or The Standard Code of Parliamentary Procedure. Afortunadamente, la ley parlamentaria provee remedios para lidiar con personas que no saben cómo comportarse en lugares públicos, o escogen no hacerlo así. Artículos futuros en esta columna se van a avocar a como desarrollar una manera correcta de manejar el comportamiento al igual que sugerencias de cómo prevenir problemas con antelación a las reuniones.

Quizás el mayor hito de una democracia es el principio de gobierno por la mayoría. Al mismo tiempo, los derechos de las minorías de los miembros en cualquier debate deben ser protegidos, y es que el punto de debatir el problema determinado es para ganar la opinión de los otros miembros y así establecer su punto de vista por encima de los demás de una forma persuasiva. De imposibilitarse lo antes dicho, entonces tienen el derecho de modificar la pregunta (el punto a debatir) si es que pueden persuadir a la mayoría de los miembros por medio de una enmienda. Por consiguiente, el debate de cualquier moción o el derecho de enmendar cualquier punto a debatir por la asamblea puede solo ser decidido por las dos terceras partes de los miembros. Incidentalmente, es importante de entender que significa el término “mayoría” en la ley parlamentaria. La mayoría significa más de la mitad de los miembros que estén presentes y puedan votar. En otras palabras, aquellos que se abstienen no son contados en ninguna votación y el líder parlamentario debe, salvo en varias ocasiones, nunca apelar a abstenciones.

Después de medio siglo de practica y reflexión, este parlamentario ha tenido que entender que el proceso parlamentario no debe ser confinado a un pequeño número de profesionales. Al contrario, es el deber y la responsabilidad de todos los miembros de una sociedad pluralista y democrática de estar informados de al menos los principios elementales de la ciencia del derecho parlamentario. Esto es necesario no solo para la protección de sus propios derechos, sino a los intereses a largo plazo de las sociedades que han escogido para ser miembros.

Es una ciencia basada en ciertos elementos básicos que son parte del conocimiento base, el código moral y la cultura. Aparte de ello, se basan en la lógica y el sentido común. Entre esos fundamentos se encuentran la cortesía con todo el mundo, el trato igual, la justicia, la honestidad y transparencia en nuestros tratos con los demás, al igual que el reino de la mayoría a la par de proteger los derechos ajenos como se ha mencionado anteriormente. En suma, simplemente debemos seguir una regla básica que se nos enseno a muy temprana edad sin siquiera notarlo. Se conoce como la Regla de Oro. Es el parecer de este parlamentario que o la entiendes o no, el tratar a los demás como te gustaría ser tratado.


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2023-03-09T20:42:58+00:00March 9th, 2023|

The Square

The Square

by Dennis Clark, PPP
National ECW Parliamentarian

At the October 2022 meeting of the NECW Board of Directors, the parliamentarian introduced the first of a series of presentations entitled “Taking the ME out of Meetings.” His contention being that the decline of civility across our land as well as across the globe has, more than ever, impacted behavior of members at meetings of various groups to which they belong. After practicing and teaching the science of parliamentary law for half a century, he has seen an alarming rise in the number of individuals and factions seeking to assert their oft-narrow opinions on the remainder of the members of a society in a manner inconducive to the well-being, harmony, perhaps even the existence of that association.

It is his contention that this behavior is reflective of society as a whole. The day the presentation was made to the Board in Manchester, New Hampshire, news came of an attempt on the life of the husband of the Speaker of the House of Representatives, Paul Pelosi, at the couple’s home in California. That same night there was a murder on the main street of Manchester, something we are told is a rarity in this area. As we finish this article, news comes from the University of Virginia of the shooting deaths of three students on campus with two more wounded by a fellow student, then two more deaths reported at a college campus in Idaho. Imagine if you can the terror that must be in the back of every parent’s mind about whether they will ever see their child alive again after they leave for school.

It ought not have to be said that these kinds of indecencies do not square with the commonly accepted precepts that a civilized society has long considered to be the norm. General Henry M. Robert (1837-1923), author of Robert’s Rules of Order (1876), said that “Where there is no law, but every man does what is right in his own eyes, there is the least of real liberty.” While individuals may not have a whole lot of control over what goes on out in the streets, they do have the ability to control poor behavior that may occur in meetings at which they attend. That is presuming those meetings are of an organized society that has adopted a set of bylaws, which should include an article naming a parliamentary authority such as the most recent edition of Robert’s Rules of Order, Newly Revised or The Standard Code of Parliamentary Procedure. Fortunately, parliamentary law provides remedies for dealing with folks who do not know how to behave in public meetings or choose not to do so. Future articles in this column will address how this is correctly done as well as suggest how to prevent problems prior to a meeting.

Perhaps the highest tenet of a democracy is the principle of rule by the majority. At the same time the rights of the minority of the members on a given side of a question must be protected, that is the right to debate the issue in order to sway other members that their view is the better one. If unable to do so they have the right to seek to modify the question (motion) if they can garner a majority vote to so amend. Hence, debate on any debatable motion or the right to attempt to amend a motion being considered by the assembly may only be closed by a two-thirds vote of those voting. Incidentally, it is important to understand what the term “majority” means in parliamentary law. Majority means more than half of those who are present and who actually vote. In other words, those who abstain are not counted in any vote and the chair should, except for a very few exceptions, never call for abstentions.

After nearly half a century of practice and reflection, this parliamentarian has come to understand that knowledge of parliamentary processes ought not be confined to a small number of professionals. Rather, it is the duty and the responsibility of all members of a democratic, pluralistic society to be informed of at least the basic tenets of the science of parliamentary law. This being necessary not only for the protection of their own rights but for the long-term interests of societies to which they have chosen to become members of.

It is a science based on certain fundamentals that are already part of the knowledge base, the moral code and culture of most. Further, they are based on logic and common sense. Among those fundamentals are courtesy toward all others, fairness and equal treatment of all, honesty and transparency in our dealings with others, as well as majority rule while protecting the rights of others as noted above. In short, it amounts simply to following a simple rule that most of us came to recognize early on in life without even having it be taught. We would come to know it as the Golden Rule. It is this parliamentarian’s view that either you get it or you don’t, to do unto others as you would have them do unto you.


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2023-03-09T20:43:57+00:00March 9th, 2023|

Prayer for this time in the world

When we wake and discover our lives
Are suddenly in a never-before time,
A never-again-the-same time,
Grant us courage, O God, in knowing
That all times are yours,
That you are ever before and after,
That with you there is no “never.”

Remind us that although mountains may become plains,
Seas may turn to desert, and our “ordinary” days may disappear,
You are unchanging in your love for us,
Ceaseless in your mercy,
Endless in your compassion.

Do not let us forget that you weep with us.
Empower us to be brave enough to shed tears.
Strong enough to seek grace.
Generous enough to serve both neighbor and enemy.
Though we sit apart and alone, transform us
Into souls bigger than self and larger than singular.

If that more fearsome never-before time,
That most dreaded never-again-the-same time
Comes to us and those we hold most dear,
Help us still to shine with hope, O God,
That our sickness may be another’s teacher,
Our deaths a pathway to life.

And when at last we enter fully into you,
May we say together with joy:
It has never been this way before.
It will never be the same again.
It is now, always and forever,
Only Love.

Anne M. Windholz, MDiv, PhD


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2023-03-09T20:43:51+00:00March 9th, 2023|

Para la disposición final de los Linos Sagrados, Colgantes, y Vestiduras

Jan Smithby Jan Bolls Smith

Los linos de los altares, colgantes, y vestiduras que no tienen reparación o cuyo reciclaje se encuentra en un lugar fuera de alcance y olvidado. quizás fueron un regalo memorial para honrar a un miembro de la iglesia o eran usados exclusivamente para servicios especiales a lo largo de un periodo de muchos años. Tristemente, todos tienen un tiempo de uso, pero eventualmente deben ser retirados propiamente debido al daño acumulado a través de los anos, o simplemente a raíz del uso constante.

Durante la reunión anual provincial IV del mes de junio del año 2022 catalogada como la conferencia “Guild” y llevada a cabo en el centro de Conferencia “Kanuga” en Herdensonville, Carolina del Norte, dicha reunión incluyo la desconsagración de los linos y otros artículos que habían sido bendecidos. Los asistentes trajeron sus linos y demás artículos que necesitaban ser desechos de una manera reverencial.

La Reverendo Martha “Marty” Hedgpeth, asistente del rector de la iglesia de Cristo en Charlotte, Carolina del Norte, sirvió como capellán desde el año 2001 al 2003 para la provincia IV del Altar Guild; ella compuso la oración de desconsagración para el servicio, que se llevó a cabo durante una de las adoraciones matutinas. Luego del servicio y tras remover todos los adornos de los linos que eran reciclables, se procedió a quemarlos.

Para la quema de los linos, un pipote grande, resistente al calor, y exento de contaminantes fue usado para hacer lo que parecía ser un fuego sagrado. Pequeños hoyos se hicieron en uno de los lados del pipote para permitir que el aire fluyera dentro del mismo. Los linos fueron cuidadosamente removidos de la canasta y colocadas sutilmente en el pipote, y un cerillo de madera prendió el fuego. Eventualmente, todo lo que quedo fueron cenizas, recordándonos que “del polvo venimos y en polvo nos convertiremos.” Después de que las cenizas se enfríen, las cenizas son esparcidas en el lago Kanuga. Los años siguientes, las cenizas fueron enterradas en los predios del centro de conferencia.

Martha “Marty” Hedgepeth fue miembro del clérigo en Carolina del Norte por 36 años y sirvió como rectora asociada en la Iglesia de Cristo por 22 años. Marty se jubiló de la iglesia de Cristo en noviembre del año 2018.

Antes de publicar la oración abajo mencionada, Yo hable con ella para pedirle su consentimiento sobre el uso de esta. Ella no titubeo en permitírmelo.

Jan Bolls Smith Presidente, Diocesis de Altar Guild Mississippi, 2001-2004, Presidente, Provincia IV Altar Guild, 2003-2006

Oración para la Des consagración de linos, colgantes, y vestiduras

Dios todo Poderoso, te agradecemos por la belleza de tu creación y nuestra responsabilidad de cuidarla. Te agradecemos por tu fiel grey a quien has dado estos linos, vestiduras, y adornos para que sean usados por tu honor y gloria. A medida que son consagrados en Tu nombre, ellos adornaron tus santuarios, reflejaron tu belleza, y sirvieron a tu gente. Es por ello por lo que, Señor, en tu nombre, nosotros los desconsagramos y este día lo retornamos a la tierra de la que vinieron – Tierra por tierra, cenizas a cenizas, polvo a polvo, Nosotros oramos en el nombre del primogenitor de toda la creación, Jesucristo, nuestro Señor. Amen.

La Reverendo Martha “Marthy” Hedgpeth

Provincia IV Altar Guild, 2001-2003


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2023-03-09T20:44:22+00:00March 9th, 2023|

Final Disposition of Sacred Linens Hangings and Vestments

Jan Smithby Jan Bolls Smith

Altar linens, hangings, or vestments beyond repairing or recycling are often stored in an out-of-the-way place and soon forgotten. Perhaps they were a memorial gift to honor a church member or used only for special services over a period of many years. Sadly, all have a life of service but must eventually be retired properly due to damage or years of wear on the fabric.

During the June 2022 annual Province IV Altar Guild Conference at the Kanuga Conference Center in Hendersonville, North Carolina, the meeting included the deconsecrating of linens and of other paraments that had been blessed. Those attending brought their linens and other items that needed to be disposed of reverently.

The Reverend Martha “Marty” Hedgpeth, an assistant rector of Christ Church, Charlotte, North Carolina, served as our chaplain from 2001-2003 for the Province IV Altar Guild; she wrote the prayer for the deconsecration service, which took place during one of our morning worship services. After the service and the removal of any recyclable embellishments and fabrics, the linens were burned.

For the burning of the linens, a large, new, contaminant-free and heat-resistant can was used to make what seemed to be a Holy fire. Small holes were made on the side of the large can to allow air flow into the vessel. The linens were carefully removed from the basket and gently placed into the can, and a wooden match was used to ignite the fire. Eventually all that was left were the ashes, reminding us that “From dust we came and to dust we will return.” After the ashes had cooled, the ashes were scattered on Lake Kanuga. The following years, the ashes were buried on the conference center grounds.

Martha “Marty” Hedgepeth was a member of the clergy in North Carolina for 36 years and served as an associate rector at Christ Church for 22 years. Marty retired from Christ Church in November 2018.

Jan Smith served as president, Mississippi Diocesan Altar Guild, 2001-2004 and as president, Province IV Altar Guild, 2003-2006

Prayer for the Deconsecration of Linens, Hangings, and Vestments

Almighty God, we thank you for the beauty of your creation and our responsibility to care for it. We thank you for your faithful people who have given these linens, vestments, and paraments to be used for your honor and glory. As they were consecrated in your name, they adorned your sanctuaries, reflected your beauty, and served your people. So now, Lord, in your name, we deconsecrate them and this day return them to the earth from which they came – earth to earth, ashes to ashes, dust to dust. We pray in the name of the firstborn of all creation, Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

The Reverend Martha “Marty” Hedgpeth

Province IV Altar Guild, 2001-2003


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2023-03-09T20:43:45+00:00March 9th, 2023|
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