“For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten Son…” John 3:16. This Bible passage was offered by National ECW Board member Mary Beth Welch in response to her assigned word, “appreciation.”

What a magnificent gift! The sacrifice made by our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, is one incomprehensible for many of us to imagine. On a day-to-day basis what do we do to show our appreciation for this wonderful gift?

For those struggling with the vestiges of gender violence, showing appreciation for anything may be difficult at best. It’s hard to imagine waking up each morning, having been victimized by others, and thinking, “How and for what should I show my appreciation?” Regardless of the circumstances in which we find ourselves, it does us all well to take a few moments each day to notice the things for which we can show appreciation. Additionally, if nothing else, we can show appreciation for the fact that those who have been victims of gender violence don’t have to suffer alone and in silence. They can and should reach out to others who are willing and ready to help. Likewise, those who are perpetrators of gender violence are not alone. They, too, can and must seek help to correct the unacceptable behavior and work to right the wrongs of the past and to live good and productive lives.

Yes, God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, so that everyone who believes in him may not perish but may have eternal life. My sisters and brothers, that is certainly something for which we may and should show our appreciation.

By Beblon Parks