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Resilience

RE – SIL – IENCE: “The capacity to recover quickly from difficulties.”

How do we get the ability to rise above difficulties? Is it our environment or genetics? How can we improve our “toughness” in bad situations?

“Take care of yourself.   Keep things in perspective. Develop confidence in your ability to solve problems. Trust your instincts. Take decisive actions. Develop realistic goals. Accept circumstances that cannot be changed. Change how you interact and respond to events. Assisting others in their time of need can also benefit the helper.” (American Psychological Association)

As each of us move forward in learning resilience, we need to take time to take care of ourselves, learn from our past, listen to the stories of others and how they’ve been affected by other’s actions or words, and take decisive action to move forward in our own lives. Civic groups, faith based organizations or social groups can help you in your journey. Be true to yourself and your journey.

Lord, give me strength and confidence in my ability to handle difficult situations. Give me guidance as to how to proceed for myself and others. Amen.

By Karen Patterson

2020-05-20T14:04:36+00:00December 3rd, 2015|

Access

The word access made me think a lot about so many people who are marginalized in our societies because of inequalities and barriers that still exist between people. I then reflected on the song, “God Has Work For Us To Do” by Carl Daw, music by M. Miller:

“Till all the jails are empty and all the bellies filled; Till no one hurts or steals or lies, and no more blood is spilled; God has work for us to do, God has work for us to do.

“Believe in the promise, ‘I make all things new’ God has work for us, work for us to do.

“Till age and race and gender no longer separate; Till pulpit, press, and politics are free of greed and hate: In tenement and mansion, in factory, farm, and mill In board room and in billiard hall, in wards where time stands still, In classroom, church, and office, in shops or on the street; In every place where people thrive or starve or hide or meet: By sitting at a bedside to hold pale, trembling hands, By speaking for the powerless against unjust demands, By praying through our doing and singing through our fear, By trusting that the seed we sow will bring God’s harvest near. God has work—work for us to do.”

Reflection: When Jesus sacrificed His life for us, one of the greatest things He accomplished was giving us complete and total access to our heavenly Father. Peace is not possible where there are serious social and economic dividing walls that limit access to basic needs that people have.

Prayer:

Dear Lord, it is your will that we be gathered together as one family in your name. Please fill my heart and that of mankind with the fire of your love and with the desire to pursue justice for all. That I may share all the good things you daily give me with those who have been bruised by injustice. In this way to help them access new opportunities in life.

I hope and pray that we will continue to make all efforts to contribute to a truly human society that is built on love and peace. Amen.

By Juditta Ellis

2020-05-20T14:06:46+00:00December 2nd, 2015|

Perseverance

We pray for all those who have been marginalized and abused because of their cultural traditions in the world. We pray for the gifts of wisdom and knowledge for their abusers and the courage that they will gather enough strength to begin to change their ways.

We pray for women everywhere that they continue to be beacons of hope to those who are being abused as a result of violence being  perpetrated upon them by those who pretend to love them.

We pray for those that are suffering in situations where every fiber of their being tells them to leave, but are afraid to ask for help.  We ask  for renewed courage and a new found sense of hope that they will find a way to escape the abuse.

We lift these people/women up to you dear Lord and ask that you pour out your mercy upon them, lessen the pain and keep them safe from further harm so that they may persevere until all suffering is done. In your mercy we pray.

By Margaret Hammond Gordon

2020-05-20T14:08:53+00:00December 1st, 2015|

Miriam

MiriamOne of the books on the shelves in my childhood bedroom that I shared with my younger sister was A Little Golden Book: Bible Stories of Boys and Girls. Here the children of the Hebrew Scriptures came alive – Rebekah at the well, Joseph and his dreams, Samuel the Lord’s child, David the shepherd, and Miriam the good sister. Each child had an encounter that, knowingly or unknowingly, brought them closer to God.

The Book of Exodus begins with the bad times that had come to the children of Israel. To stop the ever-increasing number of Israelites in his land, the Egyptian Pharaoh wanted all boy babies killed. A Levite couple, Jochebed and Amram, had a son, and his mother hid him for three months. When she could not hide him any longer, she laid the baby in a covered basket of bulrushes and put the little boat among the reeds by the river bank. The baby’s big sister Miriam stood at a distance to watch over him. Pharaoh’s daughter found the baby, and saying she needed someone to care for the child, Miriam stepped forward and said, “Shall I go and get you a nurse from the Hebrew women to nurse the child for you?” not revealing that she would get her own mother, the mother of the baby. Pharaoh’s daughter said to Jochebed, “Take this child and nurse it for me and I will give you your wages.” So the happy mother had her baby back. Because his sister Miriam had watched over him, the boy grew up safe and sound at home, and when he was older, this boy Moses was educated in the Pharaoh’s palace and became the greatest leader his people knew.

Miriam’s role as big sister did not end in the simple tale of one sibling looking after another. She became a leader-prophet of the women of Israel. After crossing the Red Sea, following the great song which her brother Moses sang in honor of all Israel, Miriam organized the women in response, with “tambourines and with dancing”. “Sing to the Lord, for he has triumphed gloriously, horse and rider he has thrown into the sea.” The singing of women in ancient times gave expression to war, battle, and miracle. It is believed that the Song of Moses was actually composed by Miriam to articulate and summarize the historical experience of escaping the Pharaoh’s chariots, and also to prepare the people to cope with the forthcoming challenges. And so, Miriam was a herald; she prepared the people for what was to come following the crossing of the Red Sea. She had been the guardian of the vision; having watched over her baby brother, perhaps knowing even then that there was greatness ahead. In the wilderness she was the guardian of the vision that was to be, a new home for their people. She was, in childhood and in adulthood, the big sister who watches and worries and prepares for the future.

Miriam wasn’t a perfect big sister. Who in Hebrew Scriptures, after all, is perfect? Who of us is perfect? She and her other brother, Aaron, criticized Moses and resented his authority. “Has the Lord spoken only through Moses? Has He not spoken through us also?” The Lord called the three into a meeting, and at the end of it, Miriam only (not Aaron or Moses) was plagued with leprosy. Because of Moses’ and Aaron’s pleas, the Lord allowed her leprosy to disappear after her seven days of banishment from the camp. In a lovely touch of compassion, the people did not journey until she was brought into the camp again. She lived on, and as tradition tells, became a mother and the forebear of kings.

We Episcopal Church Women are the big sisters of the church. We are women at any age who help others find greatness and find in ourselves the greatness to lead. As some of us look to the future and to the younger women of the church accomplishing wonderful things, we can be their big sisters, watching out for them and accompanying them on their journey. We who are younger can learn from the wisdom of the women around us and know we are never alone in all the works we do. Together we are members of a women’s chorus. We give expression to the concerns of God’s people and we sing not as a call to war and battle but to peace and justice, and always to the miracles of our God. We are sisters to each other.

During the first 2 weeks of December, I will be on Pilgrimage to the Holy Land. This is my second pilgrimage, and because of Lindsay’s book, I will be looking through new eyes, through the eyes of the women who lived in the land and who spoke at the ancient sites I will see.

++++ Coming December 15th ++++

Chapter 26: Elizabeth and Mary, the mother of Jesus

Content provided by Author Lindsay Hardin Freeman

Illustration: Claire Elam

2020-05-22T18:11:16+00:00November 30th, 2015|

Forgiveness

God is with you at this time of trial.

The fabric has been torn but the weavers are among us. We need only to allow them to begin to weave and make us whole again.

A patch is often stronger than the hole that it fills.

Let us all learn what is important, What is our mission both corporately and individually, How the cloth  can be added to with softness and strength, With color of diversity and pastel of unity.

Let us see the Holy Spirit present in the threads to make the fabric whole, Knowing each thread by name, by color, by strength, And let the fabric be offered to God in thanksgiving for the fabric of life of which we are all apart.

From “Women’s Uncommon Prayers” Submitted by Connie Ott

2020-05-20T14:12:17+00:00November 30th, 2015|

Empowerment

Empower me

To be a bold participant,

Rather than a timid saint in waiting,

In the difficult ordinariness of now;

To exercise the authority of honesty, rather than to defer power,

Or deceive to get it;

To influence someone for justice,

Rather than impress anyone for gain;

And, by grace, to find treasures of joy,

Of friendship, of peace hidden in fields

Of the daily you give me to plow.

From “Wrestling the Light” by Ted Loder Submitted by Linda Guest

2020-05-20T14:16:55+00:00November 29th, 2015|

Dignity

Will you respect the dignity of every human being? – the final question presented to candidates for Holy Baptism in our Episcopal Church. And always the final question to each of us every time we renew our Baptismal vows.

As we enter this Advent season in the church, we look forward to the coming again of Jesus into our midst – Jesus the Prince of Peace, the one who bestows justice, the one who instills and honors dignity.

And I think of Elizabeth, mother of John the Baptist. Elizabeth, barren, and aging and most likely dismissed and disrespected for years. I think of her despair, her embarrassment, her humiliation in a world where the meaning and purpose of a woman’s life was for this alone – to give birth in a time and place where men defined and ruled her life. So I share with you some thoughts about Elizabeth from “Soul Sisters: Women in Scripture Speak to Women Today” by Edwina Gately and Louis Glanzman.

“How did it feel, Elizabeth, to hear… the whispers of the women – your sisters – trapped too in a system encircling them in iron boundaries of appropriate behavior? Did you sense their pity as the glanced your way… Did you flinch, Elizabeth, before your husband’s eyes… Did you feel a Defect, Elizabeth?…

“But, where you once whispered prayers to prove your worth through pregnancy, now women’s voices rise a little louder to claim their own dignity just as they are – standing defiant on their own two feet against the definition of history… That time was not for you, Elizabeth… God alone intervened for you, Elizabeth… You only waited… as women do. And the miracle came about… right in the heart of the system, you denied them their condemnation.

“Woman – you rose and swelled in spite of the improbability, the impossibility. And you left them aghast and babbling… it was you, Elizabeth, who spoke aloud… declaring the name of your son. He is John… You who heard the voice of God in silence – now spoke it aloud, And no one, Elizabeth, dared rebuke you, Soul Sister.” (“Soul Sisters” pp. 1)

Elizabeth bore a son, she rose and swelled, physically, yes, but with all the dignity of womanhood and wisdom and thanksgiving and faith and love she could muster. May each of us reach out our hands in love and care – may each of us respect the dignity of our sisters and every human being around the corner and around the world.

Submitted by Jennifer Kenna

2020-05-20T14:44:15+00:00November 26th, 2015|

Equity

Most gracious God, out of the abundance of your love you have provided for all your creatures. As stewards of that abundance we pray that you would strengthen us to work for EQUITY. Bless us with the serene knowledge that we already have enough and teach us to work for that just and compassionate society in which all your children may say the same. In Jesus’ name. Amen

By Pat Wellnitz

2020-05-20T14:45:56+00:00November 25th, 2015|

Respect

“R. E. S. P. E. C. T. – find out what it means to me.” These lyrics of a tune made popular by the Queen of Soul, Aretha Franklin, point out a critical aspect of respect. This is, respect must be perceived and acknowledged by the person on whom it is bestowed. To show respect to someone, it is important to find out what respect means to them: “What does it look like when you’re doing it?”

In our culture today with so many of the former acts of courtesy, civility and respect being mocked in songs and videos, it’s almost impossible to glean from the noise of bombarding words and expletives deleted true and honest expressions of respect and the attendant displays of kindness.

So, as I so often do, I offer the acrostic below to remind us of the simple but explicit ways we could show respect – recognizing that as with “beauty” and the eye of the beholder, “respect” is something others need to “find out what it means to me — and you!”

R – Recognition E – Empathy S – Support P – Positive Regard E – Engagement C – Caring/ Consideration T – Truthfulness

In closing, I offer this prayer as we begin/continue our work to end gender violence.

Dear Lord, As I seek to gain respect from others, let me always show the utmost respect for all of your children. I pray that you will cause those persons who mete out acts of gender violence to be transformed into persons who show respect for all. Amen.

By Beblon Parks

2020-05-20T14:48:38+00:00November 24th, 2015|

Girls Friendly Society Triennial Delegation 2015

Girls Friendly Society delegation Triennial 2015

This year is the first year that the Girls Friendly Society has had a presence at the Triennial. The GFS is 138 years old having had its beginnings in England. Mrs. Elizabeth Townsend created the organization to assist young women who were coming into the cities to work. Their motto “Bear ye one another’s burdens and so fulfill the law of Christ” is carried out through various service projects both locally and internationally.

We welcome the GFS USA to Triennial.

2020-05-20T14:57:44+00:00June 25th, 2015|
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